As the holiday season has arrived, the schedule of parties, events, and celebrations are being finalized. Ā It can be a challenge for individuals, and those of us with families, toĀ achieveĀ a balance.
We have to decide which activities give us a sense of enjoyment, peace, and happiness, and which demands and expectations only result in high stress andĀ discouragement. Individuals and families can choose to follow past traditionsĀ to celebrate the joys of Christmas, or decide they need to create new ones!
Many grandparents and their adult children may face this challenge of finding a balance in expectations and plans for the holidays. Family situations are varied and change overtime. For example, some families live year-round together in the same town or general locale, while other families with grandchildren mayĀ live a long-distance away. I believe this article about family changes atĀ About.com GrandparentsĀ discusses this topic well.
Christmas is a time of the year that most of us have many memories connected to our familiesĀ and friends. Because of these memories, we may hold on to certain traditions and practices. But, as time goes by things change over our lifetimes…We can honor theĀ good memories ofĀ the past by remembering and creatingĀ new joyful timesĀ for our present holidays.
Regardless of the schedule, may we all find a way to choose a balanced way to celebrate the holidays…and life…,Ā which gives us a sense of renewal, peace, hope, and joy. Adding to our future…goodĀ memories of the past.
Ā ***Happy Holidays! *** š
Joni Beach 